How to find love

Finding love in these times
  Let me admit that I'm not a love guru of some sort, nor I have much experience in matchmaking
 After being locked up have you realized how lonely you are or there should have been someone to share this time with. To be depressed is normal, its the logical reaction in "we are all doomed" scenario. Don't be afraid or depressed for that matter, because it's a temporary feeling and we will get out of it alive.

 Missed  opportunities or moments where you just couldn't sum up the courage to ask somebody out are the worst things to remember, don't even think about that. Those who you thought were out of your league are as desperate as you are to at least find some love and care before everything just burns to ground           

   So here's a chance for you, try to be more positive about yourself. If you think your physique is the thing letting you down, try some exercises you have literally all the time in the world for that. If you think your pic-up lines need to be up to the mark, set up your camp in front of a mirror and practice. If you think you don't know anything about love or the opposite sex and don't know what to do, here's what I think turn off  the game you are playing and put down that game control, go to Netflix or any site you can watch movies a.d for God don't even try to watch an action thriller or a horror one, search for romantic movies and binge watch them, yes really. What that's not what you like to watch? Look around among all other reasons for you to be alone this is probably the biggest reason, yes not watching romantic movies is a big big reason for you to be alone.

 Have you ever thought, what if there was a guideline or some kind of help available regarding the likes, dislikes of ladies in general, which you could follow and make your way to their hearts. Well guys I have good news for you. Fortur or unfortunately the Hollywood have a big influence on us and most of the ladies love romantic movies and want to be treated in a similar way, the main lead in movies are treated. They want to be desired and adored. They want  to be told that they look beutiful in whatever they are wearing, they want your honest admiration. That's all the way you desire them and the passion you show about the beauty of them, all that reflects towards you winning them over. A hint if a girl is more relaxed and smiley in your company, you are doing something right.
 You don't have to be as talkative as a lawyer, just start with small gestures, you look nice, your smile is the most beautiful thing in the world, this dress is just perfect for you etc.                                   

 Now imagine you have a colleague or class-mate or someone who lives in your building. First step is how to approach them in a non creepy way. Well when lockdown is finished and most of things are back to normal. Just start small, smile and a friendly hello could be enough for a couple of days, then you could gather a little courage and comment positively on their dress, or pet or in chitchat in a pleasant way, like cute dog or looking good or something like did someone told you that you look really nice in this dress. If and that's a big if  she is smiling and friendly then you could ask for a coffee. That's enough courage for one day and remember there is no need to be discouraged if she/he is seeing someone else or may be are not looking for a relationship right now or may be too worried or afraid in these times. At least you interacted with a person and that is a big plus. Keep on interacting and soon you will find someone.
More in next episode.